18 Life-Lessons From 21 years Of My Life

I want you to know them

5 min readMay 26, 2021


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I’m 21 years old. My life taught me some of the lessons which I never want to forget. I want to share these with you so that you can learn something from my experiences and live a better life.

Here are 18 lessons from 21 years of my life:

Focus on what you can control:

If you are focusing on the things which are not in your control then you are wasting your energy. Don’t wish that people will change. They will not. Learn to accept them as they are. Accept what you can’t change and focus on that what is in your control. Focus on the things that can make your life better.

We can’t control everything that happens to us, but we can control how we respond to things we can’t control.

Choose your friends wisely:

Choose the people around you wisely. They can help you to grow. They can make you fall down. They can heal your soul. They can damage you. They can make you, break you. Your friends should motivate and inspire you. Your circle should be well rounded and supportive. Choose your friends that you can trust.

Loving yourself is the best thing:

Self-love is very important. Love yourself the way you love your dearest person. Care yourself the way you want your loved one to care for you. Love yourself and try to help yourself in becoming the best version of yourself. If you can’t love yourself, you can’t love anyone else. If you can’t love yourself, you can’t become the best version of yourself. Be the best version of yourself.

Cry whenever you feel crying:

Without the fear of being judged, let your emotions came out. Don’t hide your emotions. If you want to cry, cry. If you want to smile, smile. You are a human being and it’s fine to feel your emotions. Crying is not bad at all. It makes you more stronger.

Don’t be afraid of being judged:

No matter what you do, someone will always be unhappy with that. Don’t let anyone’s judgments change your…




You can judge me based on my writing but I will not stop writing. I believe in myself✨